Saturday, September 22, 2012

The quintessential question – why do I ride?


So, in my opinion, there are three kinds of riders, well the classification is a judgment call, but bear with me.
1.      People who ride to reach a destination.
2.     People, who ride to reach a destination, but love the ride in between, but   in the end it’s the destination that matters.
3.     People like me, who ride to ride.

I often hear the argument, what’s the point of riding if you are not aiming at a destination – enjoy the ride in between, throw in some twisties, some back-roads and some old fashioned highway blasts to make it a worthwhile ride, but in the end you need to get to some place, the destination is cake and a good ride in between is just a delicious icing, so to speak…

Now that is a fair argument, for most of us out here, this is a good routine for blowing off good steam and I can swear that it works, but riding means something more to me, it isn’t always about reaching from point A to point B, it is about being myself, it is about feeling alive, it’s about reaffirming myself.

I am of the opinion that your ride is a reflection of you, and if you are true rider, the ride chooses you; you don’t choose your ride. Again, this is a very personal opinion but once you develop an emotional connect with your ride, she senses your mood, the way you munch those miles is a reflection of what you are thinking, what is going on in your head, what you want to express. And this is exactly what I mean when I say riding is about being you.

The first time I rode out alone was to a small hill station called Yercaud, and to be perfectly honest, the start of the ride was scary, there were simply too many unknowns, and this one question was haunting me constantly, am I doing this to impress someone or make a point?, or am I doing this for myself? I found out the answer as soon as I hit the ghat roads of Yercaud, sweeping corners, tight corners, the omnipresent dilemma of whether to ride hard through the twisties or to look at the beautiful forest and views all around, I simply got immersed into that experience, and I knew, I am doing this for myself.

There is this point, usually some 20 minutes into a ride, when I and my ride completely sync up, there is this rhythm of the machine that I sense at all times and I know all is well or not with her. Once we hit this sweet spot, it sinks in, yes, it’s my time, this is something I do for myself, not for anyone else, I leave my worldly worries behind me, just concentrate into leaning perfectly into the next curve while the speedo climbs up and up, and then I steal a glance into the rear view mirror, I see the curve disappearing into the edge of the RVM, getting a little shaky and blurry as the engine screams at 10k RPM. She feels alive, I feel alive, it is almost as if she absorbed all my worries, things that bothered me over the week, or in the past and decimated them into the curve we just conquered, telling me to live in the present as the curve gives way to a straight and I tuck in behind the visor and twist the throttle, concentrating hard, living in the present, taking the road head on. And this goes on.

Of course, not all the rides are the same or beautiful and perfect throughout, there are times when I hit rough patches, times when I feel lost and alone, that drive me to a point of desperation – when I am ready to give up and turn back. But a statement from a friend always spurs me on – ‘There is no turning back my friend’, and believe it or not, faith in this statement has always rewarded me with some of the most mesmerizing sights I have ever seen, some of the most beautiful roads I have ever driven on.

On every ride I see new things, new landscapes, new flora, new fauna; reservoirs nestled between green hillocks – perfect solitude. Golden beaches where the waves dance gleefully at your arrival. Endless windmills, standing tall on pastures of golden grass, with the ocean on the horizon – a perfect romantic setting. A church half submerged in water. Temples of old, with sculptures telling stories of the past, endless tea plantations floating amongst mist clouds. A bridge across the sea, the bluest my eyes have ever witnessed. A lake with myriad shades of blue. A river bustling at the foothills of pine covered mountains with snow peaks, roads through glaciers, the list keeps growing bigger.

And at the end of the ride, as I am resting on a comfy chair or on a hard rock gazing at her as she cools down in a shade, I realize that aren’t all the things I experienced on my ride, a reaffirmation of what our elders always teach us, of how you should approach life – don’t be bogged down by the past!, live in the present!, the roads will always open up!, where there is a will, there is a way!, if it is important to you, you will find a way, else you will find an excuse! Didn’t I just experience these teachings in real life?!

And this is why I ride to ride; it always brings me to a better place, a better frame of mind, and a new life lesson every time. The ride is the cake for me and the destination is the icing. I am a biker.






13 comments:

  1. Sometimes I get upset on reaching the destination...
    It's like, "Shit man! Now what??? I'll have to get down?? :( "

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    1. lol, exactly, the same thing happened to me yesterday, me and a friend were riding to a place called panchpali dam,TN, reached and were like, dude, lets keep on riding, the roads were that good, we took a diff route home and my word , that was brilliant!

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  3. Uncle Ben once said "with great power comes great responsibility"...I say "With great experiences comes the irrepressible urge to share". And the beauty of what you felt on those rides comes out effortlessly. Beautifully written and I won't be surprised if you admit that you poured a bit of yourself in this write-up.Of everything you said all I see is a romance between you and your better half. An external medium to reach the inner-self. Keep riding, keep writing...

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    1. After reading your comment,i know i got the blog right, it is me in the blog, and yes there is this urge to share that romance i have with her, and more and more people ignite this feeling ;)

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  4. Truly amazing...! The big and the little things I felt during my Rides but not realized (completely) is what you have written in words...
    When I was small, I thought "emotions can't be expressed or told", and I am very happy to say, I stand corrected..! :)))

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    1. Thanks Rohan, expressing those was not an easy thing, i was taking notes for months, finally I sat down in front of my bike and started writing, thats when the words started flowing!

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    2. Appreciate it bro..
      Well done...well written.. :)

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  5. Woah! Amazing, you really struck a chord there. I love it!

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  6. Awesome!!! :) Jus love the way you express your feelings! I respect your thought! :) Continue your ride biker... :)

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